Tuesday, January 8, 2013

Success vs Happiness PT.2 My Son's Buck

I covered an area in the first portion of this particular blog but now let's look at a different area. Earlier this year I took my son out for a hunt trip during the Ohio Youth Gun season. Some have seen the video and some might not have. I will leave a link for you at the end of this blog to be able to view it (don't forget to click like and subscribe).

It was a nice brisk morning the wind was right and the deer was moving. I got my son up about 5am and he was ready to go. We stopped for breakfast at our favorite breakfast stop (waffle house). We got to our hunting spot (public land); got our hunting clothes on and began our trek through the woods to a place I had previously scouted. No one else was around in this area of about 400+ acres. So we felt comfortable in this area and our hopes of harvesting a deer went up from 100% to 110%. This would be my 9 yr old son's first deer. So we get set up with our scent sticks that we were given to try out. So after about 45 min. we began to hear movement then we seen movement in the distance. After another 45min. to an hour we hear more footsteps getting closer and out of the corner of my eye on my right I see a monster buck the biggest I have ever seen in my hunting career (I was shaking). We sat still and the buck got to within 20-30ft. of my son and I. The bad thing about it was our backs was to him and he came up so quick that if we were to move even slightly to turn to get a better look he would have spooked and run off for good. So we sat still for what seemed liked 20 min. at the time but was actually just a few seconds. Well he knew something wasn't right so he turned tail and walked off. About 15 min. went by and he circles back around with in 40 yrds behind some brush (no clear shot) so we waited for him to step out from behind the brush. He winded and heard some dogs barking off in the distance but getting closer. That spooked him off and he disappeared not to see him again that day.As he ran off I looked over my son's shoulder (sitting opposite of me but facing my direction) and saw 4 does coming in like they were on a string. Then they got a smell of the dogs and they took off back the way they came. The dogs we come to find out were being used for rabbit hunting and they had bells around there neck so all the deer in that area were gone. As we began to pack up and head out because our spot was blown out by the dogs we passed the guys that were rabbit hunting. One guy asked if we had seen anything and I said" yeah till your dogs came in and spooked the deer off" and wouldn't you know it not one apology at all. The only thing he had to say was " is today opening day for youth gun season?" I said "YEAH!!" he then with a smug look said "oh ok better luck next time". I figured the best thing for us to do was keep walking before I went postal (lol).

  I consider this a successful hunt because I was out with my son and he had a couple opportunities despite the guys that failed to read there yearly published rule book with new info every year. We still had a blast so we had Success which made us Happy. Remember the difference in Success and Happiness is the circumstances and how you see it and not always registered in monetary value. Thanks for reading.
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Success VS Happiness pt.1

Happiness vs Success a lot of folk have trouble with the difference between the two when they let there whole life revolve around money thinking it's making them happy but it's not so that's why they search and search and can never seem to find it; true happiness that is. The reason is there are to many options for people with a lot of money. I explained to an individual that being rich should not just be encompassed with how much money an individual has but the smile and the peace of mind he/she wakes up with in the morning. We all have our problems 9 times outta 10 they are money related. This is why this country and so many marriages and relationships are in trouble. EVERYONE wants that extra dollar. Why? to get more stuff that you don't have room for? To get a head of the next person? to gain the edge over a neighbor to "keep up with the Jones's"? Whats the purpose of that? a waste of precious time and resources. 

      I find my priorities become different as I get older. This is the reason why most times you can find me in the outdoors walking, hunting or fishing with my family. I find that true happiness can only come when your happy with yourself and your life. Each one of us have different ways or means of happiness. One thing to be able to find happiness is to be honest with yourself--- be true to yourself. If you know me personally you know that being with my family (wife and kids) and being in the outdoors is what brings me happiness. Having money is a good thing don't get me wrong but shouldn't a persons life revolve around things that has sustenance? or should a persons world revolve around materialistic things that fade or parish or could become non-existent at the drop of a dime. Sure I would love a new truck but the one I have now runs, needs a lil work but still gets me where I need to go. 


     We have a show called March's Outdoor Adventures and it is based on the finer things in life.... God, Family, Friends and the Outdoors the true finer things of life. Success is getting what you want, happiness is being happy with what you get. Stay happy my friends and get to the outdoors.